Faithful in the Little Things
By Deidre Braley
Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and
whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much. -
Luke 16:10
Something you should know is that we have a dog and three young
children. That means that nothing in our house is ever entirely clean, and also
that there’s so much hullabaloo on any given morning in our home that when the
dog starts to chew a kid’s toy, it is the least of my worries.
But it was not the least of our two-year-old’s
worries the other morning. We were trying to get everyone on the school bus and
out the door when our dog found one of the wooden “bolts” from his play toolbox
and started to roll it around in his mouth. “Oh, stop that,” I said, prying it
from his mouth. I tossed it back on the floor and wouldn’t have given it
another thought, except that our horrified toddler cried, “Mommy, will you
clean it?”
I assured him I would, of course, and then I gave him a hug and a
kiss and sent him out the door with my husband so everyone could make it to
their morning destination on time. As soon as the house was silent, I went
about my morning rounds of tidying just enough clutter so I could work at home
without being utterly distracted by the mess.
When I went back into his bedroom to gather up the dirty clothes
and clear a path for walking on his floor, I saw the dog-slobbered toy. And I
have to be honest here—I thought to myself, “He’ll never know,” and almost just
tossed it back in his toolbox without washing it. But then a small voice
whispered into my spirit, “Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be
trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be
dishonest with much.” I was convicted. I took out a baby wipe and gently rubbed
it down, then went on with my day.
When he got home that night, can you guess what he asked me right
away? “Mommy, you clean my toy?” It is hard to describe the relief I felt
knowing I could honestly say, “Yes, I did.” Just like I said I
would.
To me, that little wooden bolt had felt inconsequential. My mind
had been running through all the deadlines I needed to meet that day and all
the more “important” things I needed to accomplish. But to my son, that was the
important thing. If I hadn’t been faithful with that, how could he trust me to
be faithful at all?
Intersecting Faith & Life:
Since that day, I’ve been surprised by how many opportunities I’ve
had to be faithful in the little things—and how often I’ve been tempted to cut
corners, thinking that no one will notice or care anyway. But after telling the
parable of the shrewd manager, Jesus asks, “So if you have not been trustworthy
in handling worldly wealth, who will trust you with true riches? And if you
have not been trustworthy with someone else’s property, who will give you
property of your own” (Luke 16:11-12)? In other words, the way we steward what
we have today matters, and God sees the way we handle what he’s given to us to
care for. The people around us do too. Our obedience in tending to the “little”
things indicates the integrity of our character and whether we can also be
trusted with the “big” things.
As you go about your day today, I encourage you to keep Jesus’
words in your head: “Whoever can be trusted with very little…” Whenever you are
tempted to cut a corner (like tossing that dog-slobbered toy back into the bin
without washing it first), remember that this is an opportunity to be
faithful—to show God and others that you are a person of integrity whom they
can trust.