The importance of nourishing friendships
After David had finished talking with Saul, Jonathan became one
in spirit with David, and he loved him as himself. - 1 Samuel 18:1
The world-renowned psychologist, Sigmund Freud, died at the age
of 83, a bitter and disillusioned man. Though he was one of the most
influential thinkers of our time, Freud had little compassion for the common
person.
In 1918, he wrote, “I have found little that is good about human
beings on the whole. In my experience most of them are trash, no matter whether
they publicly subscribe to this or that ethical doctrine or to none at all” (Veritas
Reconsidered, p. 36).
As a result of his bitterness toward humanity, Freud died
friendless. Many of his loyal followers had even abandoned him, not out of
psychological disagreements, but because they were disillusioned with how
bitter he had become.
Apart from your relationship with Christ, your relationships
with people are some of the most valuable commodities you’ll ever have. Yet
many, as they grow older, tend to become like Freud: bitter, angry, and cynical
toward others.
But as you grow in your faith, you can be the exact opposite as
the joy of the Lord overcomes your life more and more every day. So nourish your friendships and keep people close. They’re
some of the most important things you can have in life!
Prayer Challenge
Pray that God would surround you with good friends with whom you
can share life and the love of Christ!