Dealing with Bitterness
See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that
no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many. - Hebrews 12:15
Underneath the
ground of Belgium’s Flanders Field, one of the deadliest battlefields of World
War I, a very dangerous and deadly secret lies. It’s so deadly, in fact, that
it’s caused a very big problem for the Belgian government.
You see, all across
this field, artillery shells are surfacing more than 90 years after they were
fired. Still unexploded, many are still very capable of killing. Some are
unearthed by farmers and construction workers, while others simply work their
way up through the soil. Dozens of full-time workers cannot keep up with them.
And even worse, thousands of these projectiles contain poisonous gas.
It’s one thing to
recognize something that can cause immense damage when it’s obvious. I’m sure
you didn’t have to tell the soldiers fighting in World War I to avoid those
artillery shells at all costs! However, when things such as these lie dormant
for so long, they become all the more precarious because they are an unseen
danger.
In much the same
way, many Christians today hold on to bitterness for years, even decades,
before it finally comes up to the surface or is unearthed by a particular
situation. And when that happens, it can often be damaging, and even deadly,
for relationships between friends and family.
So if you have any “unearthed” bitterness in your
heart, be sure you deal with it by forgiving the person it concerns and even
talking with them about it. Don’t let buried feelings of contempt harm your
relationships with friends and family because those relationships are some of
God’s greatest gifts!
Prayer Challenge:
Pray and ask God to
reveal to you any “unearthed” bitterness, no matter how old, you might have in
your heart toward another person. If you find you do carry buried resentment,
forgive that person and let them know you’ve let it go.