What’s Really Important in Life?
“‘Love
the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’This is the first and
greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your
neighbour as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two
commandments.” - Matthew 22:37-40
British
statesman and financier Cecil Rhodes, whose fortune was used to endow the
world-famous Rhodes Scholarships, was known as a stickler for correct dress.
His convictions on attire, however, were second to his care for someone else’s
feelings.
This
became apparent one evening when a young man invited to dine with Rhodes
arrived on a late train and had to go directly to Rhodes’ home in his
travel-strained clothes. He arrived, embarrassed to find the other guests
wearing full evening dress. Just then, Rhodes appeared in a shabby old blue
suit. He heard about his guest’s dilemma and wanted him to feel comfortable.
Most
would argue that convictions are a good thing. It’s crucial, however, to
prioritize our convictions and focus on what’s really important. Take, for
example, music in our churches. Many feel convicted that this or that kind of
music is the best, so they decide to fight that battle to the death –
destroying relationships and breaking fellowship over the issue.
But
the truth is we can have convictions without letting those convictions override
our biblical duties to love others and seek unity. Keep your convictions
prioritized and remember what’s most important in life: loving God and loving
people.
Prayer Challenge
Ask
God to help you prioritize your convictions and be humble enough to not let
them destroy relationships.
Questions for Thought
When
you think about the arguments you’ve had over your convictions, were your
convictions biblical or simply based on a preference?
What’s
one conviction you have that maybe you’ve allowed to overtake something that’s
really more important?